* Part 2 of a 3-part series on the role of life planning in business planning *
Like an architect’s design for a building, a Life Plan captures the hopes, dreams, needs and wants of the owner (you!) on paper. The following Life Planning Exercise is designed to help you (and your spouse, if applicable), identify and reach a consensus on the priorities and direction of your lives. The purpose of the exercise is not to complete it, then file it away, but rather continue its development, use it to inform your business plan and evolve the plan as some goals are reached, and others are sidelined.
I look forward to hearing your feedback on this process.
Blessings,
Dan Meylan
Life Planning Exercise
Phase 1. Planning to Plan.
Step 1. Pray, dedicate the process to God.
- “In his heart a man plans his course but the Lord determines his steps…” Proverbs 16:9
- “Commit to the Lord whatever you do and your plans will succeed…” Proverbs 16:1
In recognition that alignment with God’s will is the single-most important factor in the planning exercise, enter the process in a spirit of discovery, humility and learning.
Step 2. Identify the participants, ask for participation.
While the business may be your enterprise, your dream and your vision, no man is an island. Consider this a “life” planning exercise, and as your life partner, your spouse’s input is paramount. And their thoughtful buy-in should not be taken for granted. Ask for their time and attention. Select an appropriate time (or series of times) to complete this process.
In addition, consider a review by a trusted mentor, pastor or advisor. While this is your plan, wisdom can be borrowed, rather than earned the hard way.
Phase 2: Compiling the Plan.
Step 3. Where are we today?
Together with your spouse, write a short overview of you current life situation. Start with your age and a description of the season of life you feel you are in. Then cover the current situation in each area of the “6 Fs” that are below. Be sure both partners’ opinions and feelings are covered in your descriptions.
- Age and season of life
- Faith
- Family
- Friends
- Finances
- Fitness
- Fulfillment
Next, write out answers to these questions.
- Guiding Principles – What principles and priorities guide my decisions? Write the high level guiding principles that you plan to live your life by.
- Vision – Where do I see myself? Write the vision for your life as you see it now.
- Mission – What is my life going to be about? Write a mission statement for your life.
Step 4. Identify the objectives.
Both the husband and wife separately individually write down as many life objectives as you can identify. Use The Six ‘F’s – Faith, Family, Friends, Finances, Fitness and Fulfillment – to categorize your long and short term goals and the lifestyle you’d like to maintain along the way. These are objectives you want to accomplish with your life in the next 30 years. Be creative. Think about the possibilities. Write about your dreams and ambitions. Write about what the Lord has put deep in your heart.
Step 5. Prioritize.
Next the husband and wife each take their individual lists and put it in order of God’s priority. This may take some time. Recognize that over time these priorities will change. What are they right now?
Step 6. Compare.
Now set your two lists side by side. Compare your list with that of your spouse. Identify those desired accomplishments that you have in common. Combine your descriptions that you have in common to one statement that both of you can agree to. Identify those that are unique to each of you. Take the time to explain to on another why those desired accomplishments that are unique to you are important to you. Be sure to honor each other’s objectives and priorities.
If you are single, and seeking a spouse, consider how flexible you are in your priorities. How do you imagine a spouse, children and all the accompanying activities fitting into your list? In the case of the single – not looking for a spouse – how do you account for balance in your life without the influence of a spouse?
Step 7. Finalize Priorities.
Build a list of desired accomplishments in order of priority that includes those that you have in common and those that are unique to each of you. It is essential that you agree to the priority order of all the things that you want to accomplish.
Step 8. Create short-term goals.
Now write out very specific goals for one and five years, that will put you on track for your long-term objectives. For one year goals, write out a separate heading for each of the “6Fs”. You may find that you want to add some short term goals that may not be directly tied to your five year and Lifetime goals.
Remember to use SMART goals.
S Specific
M Measurable
A Attainable
R Realistic
T Timed (due date)
Step 9. Seek God.
Both individually, and as a couple, seek God’s input into your plan. Pray, discuss your plan, or elements of the plan, with a trusted mentor, friend, or senior church mentor. Listen for God’s input, guidance and direction.
Phase 3: Review, react, recalculate
Step 10. Review.
Not more often than every six months but not less than every two years get out this list you have created and review it. Ask these questions?
1. How are we doing on our desired accomplishments? (We give ourselves a grade.)
2. Has anything been achieved?
3. Do we need to revise our priority order? Did God change our priorities?
4. Do we need to add or delete an item on our list?
5. Take notes and include the date and time when you did the review so when you do the next one you can read those notes.
Anytime there is a major change that occur — or is being considered — such as a new job, a new home, a crisis of health, an extended family crisis or other life-altering event, review your 30 year goals to help guide the decisions you have to make.
Finally, consider the process outline here as a jumping off point. Make it your own. Add steps, subtract steps, add your older children’s input, and broaden the process. Be your greatest advocate by focusing on the goals God has laid out in front of you.